FREE MASTERCLASS

WHEN THE PARENTING PLAN
DOESN’T WORK

A masterclass on protecting your peace, trusting yourself, and raising kids who feel emotionally safe, even in a high-conflict coparenting situation.

 

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WHAT YOU'LL LEARN.

This masterclass will show you how to stop relying on the parenting plan for emotional safety - and start building peace, clarity, and confidence from within yourself, no matter what your coparent does.

Why the Parenting Plan can't give you the peace you're looking for

 

You’ll learn the real reason you’re constantly rereading it, double-checking every detail, or feeling panicked when your coparent bends the rules - and why this cycle keeps your nervous system stuck in panic instead of peace.

How to navigate conflict without spiraling into fear

 

You’ll learn how to stop catastrophizing, stop assuming the worst, and stop bracing for the next problem—so you can make decisions from calm leadership instead of panic.

How to protect your kids emotionally, even when coparenting feels chaotic

 

You'll learn the 5 step process I designed to help you create emotional safety for your kids - by starting with yourself.

I'm Jay.

For 11 years, I’ve been living the reality most people would consider impossible: coparenting through conflict, chaos, all after finding out my kids aren't biologically mine.

For the last 4 years, I’ve coached thousands of coparents who feel overwhelmed, anxious, and consumed by their own version of impossible.

Before I became a coach, I was the parent who lost entire days to fear and overthinking. I reread the parenting plan constantly. I tried to predict every problem. I lived in survival mode.

Everything changed when I realized this:
peace doesn’t come from getting your coparent to change — it comes from learning how to regulate yourself.

That realization became the foundation of The Skibbens Method, the 5-step framework I teach in this masterclass to help you get out of survival mode, regulate your emotions, and make grounded decisions for yourself and your kids.

My mission is simple:
To help you become the version of yourself who doesn’t get knocked over by every message, accusation, or moment of conflict — the version who feels calm, confident, and capable again.

And that journey starts here.

I used to pull out my parenting plan out before sending messages every. single. time. Now I have confidence to plan and communicate effectively without that thanks to Jay and The Creators.  

Sarah H. 

"At first I was skeptical, but during the live practice session, but every time I applied the strategies here, they kept working. Jay has been a life changer for me."

 
Christina A.

 

Your kids need more than a parenting plan

They need a calm, confident you! Learn the 5-step method that helps you keep your peace, trust yourself, and raise emotionally safe kids - no matter how chaotic coparenting gets. 

 

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